Alright here it is. I'm ready to bore you with the details of the situations if your ready to listen........ Omg its so much I don't know where to start. Well this summer has been hell for me. My mom wont let my husband move in because she feels like we'll get to comfortable and not want to leave, she already had a past man of mines live here and she doesn't want that again, she doesn't want a lot of people in her house. To be honest I think the real reason is: my mom is jealous. Now I'm not saying it to be hurtful, brag or anything like that. I feel this way because not only do I have a really good man, I'm also married, don't have kids and I work and go to school. I will be graduating next year and I'm getting a life together for myself. It seems like the more I do for me the more she hates me.
Now I know what your thinking "No she doesn't hate you..." But you see how you'll trail off there. She does hate me and if that isn't true then why does she treat me the way she does. Okay so at this point I'm guessing your like "why not just move in with him at his place?" Well I would only problem is he lives with his parents. He did live with his brother at one point but they had a falling out. So now he's back with his parents and surprise, surprise his mom hates me. Lol yea I know it, I know what your thinking. But truly it isn't my fault. Yes I got pregnant shortly after meeting Chris but I wasn't out to get any money from him or put him on child support. But she saw it that way and because I'm a big girl, she thought I was lying about the time frame and that I was further along then what I was.
I still feel like she cursed me and made me lose the baby (lol im just kidding...) After all that though I do give her the props for at least trying to make things work. She invited me over for thanksgiving and Christmas but during those times I was still hurting over how she first treated me. Then as I was getting over it and giving her another chance she started calling me a gold digger. Well not those exact words but she said I was using her son for his money. Yes Chris did spend his money on me a lot when we first started dating but I always made up for that when I got my job. Whenever he needed money to get to work or school, I gave it to him. I bought things for him and treated him to lunches and dinners but she never saw that. She just saw a woman pretty much taking away her baby.
I don't fault her for feeling that way but she needs to let go. Geez there's so much still. I'll stop here for now and write more next time.
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